Since my last post I’ve spent time jotting down notes about
the things I wanted to talk about in my next post. On March 21st a friend who I’ve known for
over 25 years died suddenly. He was only
44 years old and he had a heart attack while shoveling snow. Everything that I thought I wanted to talk
about went out the window. Since his
death I’ve been unable to focus enough to write anything. I’ve spent a lot of time just thinking. I’ve literally been sitting and remembering
everything I could about my friend. We had a very long history. I thought about our last conversation which
was about a year ago. I thought about his last everything. I prayed to God that he didn’t suffer. I prayed for his wife and their two
boys. What happened to my friend is very
sad and I realize that things like this happen all the time. The
point for me is that we all must remember that our time here is brief and for
some it’s briefer than others. The
unfortunate part is that we don’t know when our time here will be up. Sure, we can take really good care of our
bodies and take extra precautions in every aspect of our lives but at the end
of the day we have very little say as to when our time will be up. We have to try to make every breath we take
and minute we get here count. Live life to its fullest with no regrets. All of this reminded me of a poem I wrote a
few years ago. It’s titled “If I died
today”
If I died today
What would people say?
Would they talk about my work?
How well I did my job?
Would they talk about my love for music, my angelic voice?
Would they talk about the books I’ve written and published?
If I died today
What would people say?
Would they talk about me the person?
Would they talk about how my life meant something?
How my life changed the lives of others
If I died today what would people say?
Would people sit and wonder
What the purpose of my life was
Or would it be clear for everyone to see
That I came
I lived
I fulfilled my purpose
And now I’ve gone on
If I died today
I wonder what people would say
*****
When someone passes suddenly people always say I just saw
him or her or something like that. I
wish I could say that I Just saw you or I just talked to you but it’s not
true. I can’t remember exactly the last
time we spoke, but it’s probably been almost a year now, and I’m so sad about
that now because now I can’t hear your voice or laugh anymore. When the news about your passing came through
to me it took a few seconds for it to really sink in. Immediately all the memories that we shared
came back to me. I remember your smile
and your laugh. I remember the shy young
man I met when you first came to work at Health America and the more confident
man you became. I have literally watched you grow up over the years. Your marriage, your kids, your losses, your
challenges and your successes. All of it came flooding back to my memory in
what felt like an instant. I’ve shed so
many tears today for you and my heart aches for your wife, Laurie and
children. RIP my friend you will be
missed.
Scott when I attended your funeral service I was in awe at
the turnout and felt honored to have known you, a man who touched the lives of
so many people in such a short period of time.
Everyone loved you differently, but it was all love, nonetheless. Although we shed tears, and many thought, and
some said aloud how tragic it was that your life was cut short, you made a
difference. It was evident to me buy
what I observed at your service. I felt
sad that it took your death to make us all realize just how special you were to
us all.
I implore all of you to take a moment after you read this
post and think about your life. Are you making every breath and minute
count? Are you being the absolute best
you that you can be? We only get this
one brief life to live. Tell everyone
now how you feel about them, what they mean to you. You might blink and miss the opportunity to
do so. Do everything you can to make it
count, make a difference.
Sorry for your loss, and always know they are gone, but not forgotten. To answer a few questions you ask, but hope I never see it. If you go before me I would feel a great loss, and thinking about it now bring tears to my eyes. So to answer your questions, people would miss you something fierce,with me being one of them. I can't imagine how hard it would be for your family who love you to life,but then again I could, because whemy parents passed my world as I knew it shifted, and if it wasn't for God, I would be a different person todsy. People would say what an inspiring person you were, and how much you were loved. I could go on, but I don't want you to get a big head (smile ). I believe you understand me well enough to know that I am one of your biggest fans, as well as part of your family. I suppose what I am trying to say, I know we can't breathe without you. Glad I let you know while you can truly know you are loved and appreciated, not only by me, but from everyone who knows you. Sorry,this is so long,but it needed to be said. Love you so much,remember that.
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